What makes good sex great? Tips for a hot sex life from Bonk Lube
We’ll happily admit it, we love sex. And, it’s a fascinating thing to experience different ways of having sex – in different moods, different positions, and sometimes with different people! From endorphin drenched star spangled love making of the most romantic kind, to exciting hard and fast, there’s so much to try!
We got to thinking… what gets in the way of loving sex?
And because we’re ‘fix-it’ types (which is why we invented a natural organic Bonk Lube in the first place!), we thought we’d write some ideas down, and try to come up with some ways to work through them. We want absolutely everyone to enjoy the sex they have.
Choose to bonk the right person
If you’re not feeling appreciated, respected or desired by your sexual partner, there’s going to be a massive spanner in the works right from square one. It may be that this isn’t the right person for you to get intimate with, or that you need to make time and space to reconnect with each other.
Sex with someone who loves who you are can be gob-smackingly good, and fly-by-night encounters will have an extra frisson if that person shows that they are impressed by your fine self! Do a little self-analysis and decide how you need your sex partner to view you – do you need simple desire, an intellectual equal, or affection and tenderness? Do you need exclusivity, romance, hot sweaty fun – or all of the above?
Set your bar at a place that makes you feel great, and don’t let your choice of sexual partner fall below the standard you set.
Take a new look at beautiful
We’re constantly bombarded with images of the ideal look for a human being. Let’s get real! There are 7.6 billion of us and every one is physically different. If people only desired supermodels we would have been extinct thousands of years ago. For all of human existence people have been getting the hots for all sorts of people.
Everybody can be somebody’s favourite body. Start by making your body your most favourite body, and giving yourself a little love. (You can take that literally if you like too, because Bonk Lube is ideal for solo sessions.)
Give yourself a break, and appreciate the absolute freaking miracle that is your unique being. Create a self-appreciation space and have a long hot bath with yourself, or run like the wind and feel your heart beating, or book yourself in for a beauty spa session – whatever suits your style.
Try new things. Variety is the spice of life and with Bonk Lube you can be reassured that things will go smoothly! If you are lucky enough to have a long term loving partner, you can get so familiar with each other’s favourite moves that it all becomes a little predictable.
Talk with your partner about those secret fantasies and give them a whirl. Get the Karma Sutra and choose some new things to try – regardless of if they end in orgasm or in laughter, you will have brightened up your sex life!
Take Bonk Lube along for the ride to ensure silky smooth luxuriant loving. Personal lubrication is sexy in itself, and enhances the sensation of everything you try. Never underestimate the role of a good lube in foreplay – you can make sure all systems are go before you get down to the main event… this can be so much fun that foreplay becomes the main even and sex becomes the dessert!
Be good to each other
Have fun. Be kind. Enjoy each other.
The Bonk Lube team.