Whatever your reason for using sex lube, it helps to have some tips up your sleeve to get the most pleasure out of your experience.

#1 – Size matters!

Squeeze out an amount of lube around twice the size of a pea. Keep your tube of Bonk Lube Natural Organic Lubricant handy, you never know how long the fun will last, or where the game will go!

#2 – Turn up the heat

Sex lube can feel pretty chilly straight out of the tube, so give it a quick rub between your palms to warm it up and keep your partner hot.

#3 – Know your lubes

Check you’re using the right kind of lube for your condoms – water based sexual lubricant is safe with any type of condom but oil-based lubricant is only compatible with polyurethane condoms, nitrile condoms and silicone based toys; it isn’t suitable for use with latex or polyisoprene condoms as they can break down and fail to provide protection. Don’t use silicone lubricants with silicone toys.

Natural lubricants are better for anyone with sensitive skin, allergies, or other sensitivities, and it’s a good idea to avoid lubes with glycerine if you are susceptible to yeast infections.

#4 – Speaking of condoms…

If you’re using a condom, the way to make it feel nice and natural is to slip it on and apply lube to the outside of it. A word to the wise – a drop or two of sex lube inside can help increase sensation too, but don’t add enough to make the condom slip.

#5 – Slip sliding away

If you’re in a long term relationship and having sex without protection, or working on making a baby, the lube goes right onto the key action spots! Take your time applying it, and make sure it’s rubbed on nice and smooth, in all the right places. A little extra foreplay never hurt anyone!

As a high level guide, personal lubricant should go on your body, your partner’s body, and on anything else you are using! You can also slip a little inside yourself to increase the sliding sensations. If you’re having anal sex, be very generous with the amount of sex lube you apply to both partners.

#6 – A quick pit-stop

If your love making is of the long lasting variety, lucky you! Just slip on an extra slick of lubricant to keep the fun sliding smoothly and enjoy. If your choice of condom allows, you will find that our oil based sex lube will last longer.

#7 – Lube your toys

Sex toys slide better with a slick of organic sex lube – either of our formulations is fine for sex toy lubrication. 

#8 – Oral

Some swear by sex lube as a tip for cunnilingus or rimming anyway, but if you are using a dental damn, it really is a great addition. You’ll want to steer clear of synthetic sex lube formulas with strong perfumes though.

#9 – Handy!

Fingers slide much smoother with a little lubricant, adding serious silky sensation to hand jobs or fingering. 

#10 – Multipurpose massage oil

Well we think it’s a bit wasteful but when the need arises, you can slick our oil based personal lubricant on any skin and smooth it sensually – from a good ol ‘dry hump / full body massage’ to easing a tight shoulder muscle. Just another reason to pack your sex lube when leaving for holidays! 

#11 – Layering

Sex is great. Sex with extra sensation is wild! Talk sexy to your partner. Get a few drops of sex lube and smooth it on sensual areas while you have sex… nipples, perineum, balls, clit… any erogenous zone is going to feel extra silky and add to the building eroticism.

# 12 – Enjoy

This is the fun part – and we’ll leave you to make up your own guidelines for this!