Image by Rita Renoir. By Laura Borrowdale for Stuff. Laura is a teacher, a mother and the founder of New Zealand’s first erotic journal, Aotearotica. Looking out at a room full of people who have accidentally booked a dinner party on the same night you’ve been booked to recite erotic poetry is always going to be […]
“It seems it’s assumed that every woman just ‘lubes up’ easy peasy and all-of-a-sudden we are slip slidin’ and ready to go. Reality is, it takes women time (and authentic connection with their lover) to get wet, plus some of us just don’t get as wet as others, and that’s completely normal and okay too.” […]
Contributor blog by a Bonk Lube customer. Want to share your story? Email us. If we publish it, we will send you a treat! Whoever thought there would be a problem with moving from masturbating (and enjoying those delicious sensations), to being concerned about how your body will adapt when you meet that amazing someone […]
Well I guess we never thought we’d be sharing a Woman’s Day article – but this is 2018 and even the more reliable women’s magazines are getting into sex advice! It’s a brave new world, and we like it! Last winter Jen Glantz wrote this fab little piece outlining info from sexperts on what people […]
Let your partner please you Take turns giving the goodness and let foreplay be a one-way street for a while. Often giving pleasure is just as much fun as getting it, and the person on the receiving end can concentrate 100% on how amazing they are feeling. Feel great about life What makes you hum? […]
Talk it up If you have sexy plans for your partner, call them or text and let them know. Make sensual promises and tell them how much you are planning to enjoy being with them. Make them feel special before you even see them – this is starting the foreplay early! Take it slow Make […]
Sex is fabulous, and slippery sex is even better! That’s where lube comes into the act. The topic of using lube can be hushed up in certain circles… either because it has ‘kinky’ connotations and only a total sex addict would need it; or for the complete opposite reason – when you need a little […]
By Ali Drucker for Cosmopolitan Magazine, July 2017. Ali has done her research, and you can benefit from her rather saucy tips on using personal lube in less obvious ways. Note: When Ali means obvious, she says “obvi”. As in; ‘lube is great for sex, obvi’. “Lube is the unsung hero of sex. From easing uncomfortable […]
Menopause is a dry medical term – and ‘dryness’ is exactly what comes to mind for many women learning all about the symptoms of menopause. Women talk in hushed tones about the sleepless nights, the hot flushes, the weight gain that menopause can bring. Let’s change the record! Women in their mid 40’s to 50’s are […]
We’ll happily admit it, we love sex. And, it’s a fascinating thing to experience different ways of having sex – in different moods, different positions, and sometimes with different people! From endorphin drenched star spangled love making of the most romantic kind, to exciting hard and fast, there’s so much to try! We got to […]
Bonk Lube – does just what it says on the packet! No heavy synthetic scents, non-sticky, no toxic chemicals! ♡ Just silky slippery fun.
HUIA VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Bonk Lube!!! Best lube ever. Does exactly what it should with no nasties and better than any other lube I’ve tried. AND, for us sensitive types, absolutely no irritation after use. Which is important!! I highly recommend this product ♡
SARAH VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
This is a great product, doesn’t leave any sticky residue and you feel comfortable knowing what you are putting near your sensitive parts. Also great for more than just intimacy- great for using in conjunction with your menstrual cup if needed!
LEAH VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
5 Stars. We enjoy the texture of this lube. I like the fact it is NZ made, affordable price, and a more eco-friendly option. For us, a little goes a long way so despite being a small tube we aren’t needing as much as with previous brands. We really enjoy using this product no smell, no sticky texture. A definite repurchase but probably in the bigger size next time.
LISELL VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
On my second tube of this stuff! To anyone who’s still on the fence about whether they should purchase or not, just do it! Great stuff, 5 Stars.
JACKIE VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
A++++++ this lube is seriously the best thing ever, you will not regret buying it! It is so silky and it’s not sticky and doesn’t dry out. It’s also very effective, you only need a small amount! Love, love, love.
HANA VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Thrilled to have a natural alternative, highly recommended, 5 Stars!
STEFFI VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
This is straight up the best Lube I’ve tried, didn’t dry out. Love it 😊 5 Stars.
HOLLY VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
We’ve tried lots of organic and natural lubes but this one is the best! Great to have something that is not toxic for such personal use!
JESSAMY VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Amazing texture! Not sticky or smelly, I think this is the best lube I’ve used!
RUBY VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Great lube, nice and natural.
Organic goodness. That is what this product is all about. You definitely have a happy customer here. I am so glad that there is such a great organic and natural personal lubricant out there. And water based is the only way to go. One of the first things we learned in nursing school, was to never use anything but water based on any mucous membrane area of your body. These areas offer such a high absorption rate, and oil-based isn’t healthy for those areas at all.
There is only a light, faint natural scent to this product, reminiscent of Aloe. It’s awesome that my husband loves Aloe because this product has a great base of organic Aloe Vera in it. The ingredients in this lubricant are organic Aloe Vera, Organic Guar Gum, Dehyroacetic Acid, Benzyl Alcohol, Harakeke Extract, and Citric Acid. Dehyroacetic Acid is commonly used for it’s anti-fungal and ant-bacterial properties. The Harakeke extract is a native plant of New Zealand. It is also known for it’s anti-bacterial, anti-inflammatory, skin softening, and healing properties. Citric acid is of course used as a preservative. Aloe is fantastic for its anti-inflammatory properties too. These are all just a win-win in a personal lubricant. This product definitely works. We are very pleased and I have absolutely no complaints, except I wish the tube was larger, LOL. You can never have enough great quality personal hygiene products. This Bonk lube is a definite winner.
CAROL VIA AMAZON.COMUSA
This product did exactly what it was supposed to. When applied it felt amazing. I will be getting more.
HEFF VIA HEALTHPOST.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
My favourite thing about both the Bonk organic lubes is the way they were completely and utterly scentless. There was no danger of ending up with bubblegum smelling naughty bits. Another bonus was that a little went a long way, a very sexy slippery long way. The oil-based one did break down a bit better than the water-based one, but both were very effective and felt pretty natural against the skin throughout the whole deed. Even the clean up afterwards was easy, there was no clinging on to precious sensitive parts. Definitely my new favourite bedside accessory.
I received my lubricant quick and before the time specified. The lubricant works great just as described. I like this one because it’s water based and I can use with my toys. The lubricant is organic and not too messy cleans up easy. A bonus was the sample size of their other lubricant included with my Bonk Lube purchase.
NICHOLAS VIA AMAZONUSA
Part of my recommended strategy for a great sex life is the use of personal lube. I’ve never enjoyed recommending lubricants which contain chemicals but unfortunately here in New Zealand, that’s all we’ve had available. I’m excited to be able to recommend Bonk Lube to clients, the texture and application is smooth and delicious – it’s not messy and definitely enhances sexual pleasure from both the male and female perspective. Unlike other lubes, it’s long-lasting and effective throughout the whole of the sexual act including foreplay and intercourse.
JACKIE OLLIVER, SEX THERAPISTNEW ZEALAND
I bought the combo pack to try out both of them and see what I preferred. Both were great, I love that they’re natural as I wouldn’t put chemicals on my face or body so why would I for an even more sensitive area! Both oil and water based lubricants were great! Neither of them has strong scents, which I like. I found the oil-based lasted longer as water-based products do tend to dry/absorb quicker. Thank you, Bonk Lube!
Love it, being organic and NZ made is such a plus. Will buy again in the bigger size.
Great texture, unlike some lubes I’ve tried which feel pasty or gluey. It works really well! 5 Stars.
MARTHA VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Great to have an organic option for such an intimate and personal product. Very happy with it!! 😉
JAMIE VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Marsha via Amazon.comUnited Kingdom
Organic goodness. That is what this product is all about. You definitely have a happy customer here. I am so glad that there is such a great organic and natural personal lubricant out there. And water based is the only way to go. One of the first things we learned in nursing school, was to never use anything but water based on any mucous membrane area of your body. We are very pleased – bonk lube is a definite winner.
Carol via Amazon.comUSA
My wife and I don’t mind saying we need a little help under the covers and it’s been a load of fun product testing. Plus it’s the only organic one at the moment so that should inspire you. We keep some in the glovebox, in the draw by the bed, at the bach, as you never know when the moment might strike! You should try it!
I’m a sucker for good packaging design, so when I found ‘bonk lube’ on ‘theDieline’ I had to get some. I was thrilled to learn that bonk lube is Certified Organic, and I wouldn’t have to worry about toxic chemicals or funny ingredients. bonk lube is unbeatable and we won’t use anything else! We seriously love this product!