Category Archives: Sex advice

Book a sexy night in… with yourself

Who knows your body like no one else? Who loves to make you feel good? Who can you trust implicitly? If you answered with your partner’s name, that’s fantastic – but if you answered with your own, wonderful; we have some sexy self-loving tips for you.

How to use personal lubricant – A complete guide to using sex lube

Whatever your reason for using sex lube, it helps to have some tips up your sleeve to get the most pleasure out of your experience. #1 – Size matters! Squeeze out an amount of lube around twice the size of a pea. Keep your tube of Bonk Lube Natural Organic Lubricant handy, you never know […]

How to make love – AND love the planet!

Sex is natural. And we think it should be naturally good for the earth too. Top picks in this Oh Natural blog by Ethically Kate were the magical combination of Jonny Condoms & Bonk Lube!   Wrap it the green way with vegan condoms If condoms are your preferred method of birth control and STI […]

4 Reasons sex is better with someone you love

We are programmed to have a hunger for sex, just like we do for food. Sex, like hunger, is a strong basic human need. But is sex with one person akin to eating only weetbix for life? Monogamy has a pretty bad rap. We’re told that sex with the same person for a long time will […]

Oil based personal lubricant or water based sex lube? Choose your lube!

Ok, we’re agreed that organic personal lubricant is where it’s at, because we don’t need pesticides in on our love making – but which is better for you – water based lube or oil based lube? Use this handy checklist to find the best organic lubricant for you! 1. Are you using sex toys? Water […]

Sex tips for lubed up fun from around the web

Cosmo’s 10 ways to use lube during sex “If you’ve never put lube inside a condom, WYD?” “Lube is the unsung hero of sex. It’s galaxy brain-level sex-having, because it’s so obvious, yet so brilliant, and once you know about it, you’ll think back on the time before you did as the horrid “before years.” For some […]

Better sex for women – hot sex tips for men who love women

We love great sex. We’ve gathered tips on how men can help women enjoy sex even more, because knowledge is power, and orgasms are awesome. If you’re a woman, you might also want to read our hot sex tips for women here.   Time unlocks all the best doors Create a space in her day […]

Aotearotica – an erotic journal for New Zealand

Image by Rita Renoir. By Laura Borrowdale for Stuff. Laura is a teacher, a mother and the founder of New Zealand’s first erotic journal, Aotearotica. Looking out at a room full of people who have accidentally booked a dinner party on the same night you’ve been booked to recite erotic poetry is always going to be […]