Tag Archives: Sex advice

4 Reasons sex is better with someone you love

We are programmed to have a hunger for sex, just like we do for food. Sex, like hunger, is a strong basic human need. But is sex with one person akin to eating only weetbix for life? Monogamy has a pretty bad rap. We’re told that sex with the same person for a long time will […]

An insider’s guide to transitioning from self-loving solo fun to bonking!

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Contributor blog by a Bonk Lube customer. Want to share your story? Email us. If we publish it, we will send you a treat! Whoever thought there would be a problem with moving from masturbating (and enjoying those delicious sensations), to being concerned about how your body will adapt when you meet that amazing someone […]

Create a better sex life Part 2 – A how-to for sexy, sensual fun!

Let your partner please you Take turns giving the goodness and let foreplay be a one-way street for a while. Often giving pleasure is just as much fun as getting it, and the person on the receiving end can concentrate 100% on how amazing they are feeling. Feel great about life What makes you hum? […]

Create a better sex life Part 1 – A how-to for sexy, sensual fun!

Talk it up If you have sexy plans for your partner, call them or text and let them know. Make sensual promises and tell them how much you are planning to enjoy being with them. Make them feel special before you even see them – this is starting the foreplay early! Take it slow Make […]