Sex tips for women #1: Know thyself Make time to enjoy your own body and find out what makes you melt into sensations of lust! Fantasise, touch yourself, play with toys, stroke your body all over, take hot baths, get to know your own sensuality. How can you expect a lover to get it right, […]
Good sex makes us feel good, great sex makes us feel fantastic. That’s no surprise, but there are flow on health benefits to great sex too! It might seem obvious that enjoying regular, gorgeous sex with someone who cares about you or even with a range of exciting strangers will make you feel better about […]
“There’s so much that’s been left unsaid, unasked, and unknown. All because of a taboo that, we believe, will look absurd in a few decades—the same way taboos from the 1950’s about oral sex and homosexuality are absurd to us now. OMGYes want to accelerate that transition.” The creators of OMGYes conducted in-depth interviews with […]
We cant talk about passion without mentioning the kind that happens in the sack. We asked Marie and Amanda, founders of the New Zealand made Certified Organic Bonk Lube, what got them going. What inspired you to launch Bonk Lube? As organic followers we are on a continual search for beautiful, organic alternatives to every […]
“It seems it’s assumed that every woman just ‘lubes up’ easy peasy and all-of-a-sudden we are slip slidin’ and ready to go. Reality is, it takes women time (and authentic connection with their lover) to get wet, plus some of us just don’t get as wet as others, and that’s completely normal and okay too.” […]
Contributor blog by a Bonk Lube customer. Want to share your story? Email us. If we publish it, we will send you a treat! Whoever thought there would be a problem with moving from masturbating (and enjoying those delicious sensations), to being concerned about how your body will adapt when you meet that amazing someone […]
18 sexy moves women love This article featured in Maxim Magazine is a hot n steamy list of the top 18 things women love during sex. Full credit to the writer, Danielle Bacher, it’s a pretty comprehensive list… some of our top picks were: Foreplay. Lots of Foreplay. We put as much emphasis on the appetizer as […]
Let your partner please you Take turns giving the goodness and let foreplay be a one-way street for a while. Often giving pleasure is just as much fun as getting it, and the person on the receiving end can concentrate 100% on how amazing they are feeling. Feel great about life What makes you hum? […]
Talk it up If you have sexy plans for your partner, call them or text and let them know. Make sensual promises and tell them how much you are planning to enjoy being with them. Make them feel special before you even see them – this is starting the foreplay early! Take it slow Make […]
Whatever your reason for using sex lube, it helps to have some tips up your sleeve to get the most pleasure out of your experience. #1 – Size matters! Squeeze out an amount of lube around twice the size of a pea. Keep your tube of Bonk Lube Natural Organic Lubricant handy, you never know […]
“Do you know what people should give mums to be? Not flowers or kid’s clothes or things to make them smell nice (they’ve just had a bloody baby they ain’t going to smell nice they won’t shower for like 6 weeks for real!) you should buy them bonk lube, a big old tube of Bonk Lube.”
ROCKY & RUBYNEW ZEALAND
Bonk Lube is a natural New Zealand made product, certified organic and cruelty free. Both formulas include ingredients specifically from New Zealand and you can tell just by reading the full ingredient list that this is not only safe for your intimate areas, but it’s also going to keep it soft and moisturised. You could use both these products anywhere on your body and they would enhance your skin’s moisture and look so I’m taking that as an added win; lube and a safe ‘down-under’ moisturizer in one.
I have trialed both the Bonk Lubes in water based and oil based formulas, and I would have to say that for me (currently living in the hot summer weather) the water based is my preference, it’s the texture of an aloe vera gel, logical as this is one of the main ingredients.
MILLIE ELDER HOLMESLIFESTYLE & WELLNESS
This is amazing! Smells great and natural. Was unsure about using the oil-based one at first but am more than happy with it! Highly recommended.
CLARISSA VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
Loved it because it was oil based it didn’t dry or irritate my skin. An amazing product that I’ve been searching for, for a while. Trying the water-based this time to see if I love it even more.
BELLE VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
Definitely recommend hee hee!
NATASHA VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
Finally an organic all natural lubricant! Its brilliant!!
A VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
I bought a mini size to try thinking that it may help when we want to get at it speedily fast. I never thought we would use it as much as we do! We went on to buy the larger size. I love how you only need the smallest bit. Love this product.
CHRISSY VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
This stuff is great! Super clean ingredient list and washes off easily. My go to from now on!
ANNA VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
Fantastic stuff – I love the fact it’s organic and NZ made. I’m so glad I found out about Bonk Lube. We have tried out both the water and oil based in the trial size and now ordered the large water based one.
Great lube, works well and doesn’t leave you sticky. No scent so doesn’t take away or distract from the experience. Love that you know what you’re putting on your bits.
ROSIE VIA OH NATURALNEW ZEALAND
Bonk Lube – does just what it says on the packet! No heavy synthetic scents, non-sticky, no toxic chemicals! ♡ Just silky slippery fun.
HUIA VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Bonk Lube!!! Best lube ever. Does exactly what it should with no nasties and better than any other lube I’ve tried. AND, for us sensitive types, absolutely no irritation after use. Which is important!! I highly recommend this product ♡
SARAH VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
This is a great product, doesn’t leave any sticky residue and you feel comfortable knowing what you are putting near your sensitive parts. Also great for more than just intimacy- great for using in conjunction with your menstrual cup if needed!
LEAH VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
5 Stars. We enjoy the texture of this lube. I like the fact it is NZ made, affordable price, and a more eco-friendly option. For us, a little goes a long way so despite being a small tube we aren’t needing as much as with previous brands. We really enjoy using this product no smell, no sticky texture. A definite repurchase but probably in the bigger size next time.
LISELL VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
On my second tube of this stuff! To anyone who’s still on the fence about whether they should purchase or not, just do it! Great stuff, 5 Stars.
JACKIE VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
A++++++ this lube is seriously the best thing ever, you will not regret buying it! It is so silky and it’s not sticky and doesn’t dry out. It’s also very effective, you only need a small amount! Love, love, love.
HANA VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Thrilled to have a natural alternative, highly recommended, 5 Stars!
STEFFI VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
This is straight up the best Lube I’ve tried, didn’t dry out. Love it 😊 5 Stars.
HOLLY VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
We’ve tried lots of organic and natural lubes but this one is the best! Great to have something that is not toxic for such personal use!
JESSAMY VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Amazing texture! Not sticky or smelly, I think this is the best lube I’ve used!
RUBY VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Great lube, nice and natural.
Organic goodness. That is what this product is all about. You definitely have a happy customer here. I am so glad that there is such a great organic and natural personal lubricant out there. And water based is the only way to go. One of the first things we learned in nursing school, was to never use anything but water based on any mucous membrane area of your body. These areas offer such a high absorption rate, and oil-based isn’t healthy for those areas at all.
There is only a light, faint natural scent to this product, reminiscent of Aloe. It’s awesome that my husband loves Aloe because this product has a great base of organic Aloe Vera in it. The ingredients in this lubricant are organic Aloe Vera, Organic Guar Gum, Dehyroacetic Acid, Benzyl Alcohol, Harakeke Extract, and Citric Acid. Dehyroacetic Acid is commonly used for it’s anti-fungal and ant-bacterial properties. The Harakeke extract is a native plant of New Zealand. It is also known for it’s anti-bacterial, anti-inflammatory, skin softening, and healing properties. Citric acid is of course used as a preservative. Aloe is fantastic for its anti-inflammatory properties too. These are all just a win-win in a personal lubricant. This product definitely works. We are very pleased and I have absolutely no complaints, except I wish the tube was larger, LOL. You can never have enough great quality personal hygiene products. This Bonk lube is a definite winner.
CAROL VIA AMAZON.COMUSA
This product did exactly what it was supposed to. When applied it felt amazing. I will be getting more.
HEFF VIA HEALTHPOST.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
My favourite thing about both the Bonk organic lubes is the way they were completely and utterly scentless. There was no danger of ending up with bubblegum smelling naughty bits. Another bonus was that a little went a long way, a very sexy slippery long way. The oil-based one did break down a bit better than the water-based one, but both were very effective and felt pretty natural against the skin throughout the whole deed. Even the clean up afterwards was easy, there was no clinging on to precious sensitive parts. Definitely my new favourite bedside accessory.
I received my lubricant quick and before the time specified. The lubricant works great just as described. I like this one because it’s water based and I can use with my toys. The lubricant is organic and not too messy cleans up easy. A bonus was the sample size of their other lubricant included with my Bonk Lube purchase.
NICHOLAS VIA AMAZONUSA
Part of my recommended strategy for a great sex life is the use of personal lube. I’ve never enjoyed recommending lubricants which contain chemicals but unfortunately here in New Zealand, that’s all we’ve had available. I’m excited to be able to recommend Bonk Lube to clients, the texture and application is smooth and delicious – it’s not messy and definitely enhances sexual pleasure from both the male and female perspective. Unlike other lubes, it’s long-lasting and effective throughout the whole of the sexual act including foreplay and intercourse.
JACKIE OLLIVER, SEX THERAPISTNEW ZEALAND
I bought the combo pack to try out both of them and see what I preferred. Both were great, I love that they’re natural as I wouldn’t put chemicals on my face or body so why would I for an even more sensitive area! Both oil and water based lubricants were great! Neither of them has strong scents, which I like. I found the oil-based lasted longer as water-based products do tend to dry/absorb quicker. Thank you, Bonk Lube!
Love it, being organic and NZ made is such a plus. Will buy again in the bigger size.
Great texture, unlike some lubes I’ve tried which feel pasty or gluey. It works really well! 5 Stars.
MARTHA VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Great to have an organic option for such an intimate and personal product. Very happy with it!! 😉
JAMIE VIA OHNATURAL.CO.NZNEW ZEALAND
Marsha via Amazon.comUnited Kingdom
Organic goodness. That is what this product is all about. You definitely have a happy customer here. I am so glad that there is such a great organic and natural personal lubricant out there. And water based is the only way to go. One of the first things we learned in nursing school, was to never use anything but water based on any mucous membrane area of your body. We are very pleased – bonk lube is a definite winner.
Carol via Amazon.comUSA
My wife and I don’t mind saying we need a little help under the covers and it’s been a load of fun product testing. Plus it’s the only organic one at the moment so that should inspire you. We keep some in the glovebox, in the draw by the bed, at the bach, as you never know when the moment might strike! You should try it!
I’m a sucker for good packaging design, so when I found ‘bonk lube’ on ‘theDieline’ I had to get some. I was thrilled to learn that bonk lube is Certified Organic, and I wouldn’t have to worry about toxic chemicals or funny ingredients. bonk lube is unbeatable and we won’t use anything else! We seriously love this product!