Category Archives: Sexperts

Sexy, fiesty spring sex tips

Spring is here, with cherry blossoms fluttering, lambs leaping and a certain vibrancy in the air… or is it sexual tension and desire? Science says that sexual activity peaks in winter and summer but for many of us, spring provides an undeniable frisson of energy that leads to exciting paths. Maybe it’s seeing the first bare legs in skirts and chest muscles stretching tshirts in enticing ways. Spring is here – let’s celebrate!

Book a sexy night in… with yourself

Who knows your body like no one else? Who loves to make you feel good? Who can you trust implicitly? If you answered with your partner’s name, that’s fantastic – but if you answered with your own, wonderful; we have some sexy self-loving tips for you.

Sex tips for lubed up fun from around the web

Cosmo’s 10 ways to use lube during sex “If you’ve never put lube inside a condom, WYD?” “Lube is the unsung hero of sex. It’s galaxy brain-level sex-having, because it’s so obvious, yet so brilliant, and once you know about it, you’ll think back on the time before you did as the horrid “before years.” For some […]

Better sex for women – hot sex tips for men who love women

We love great sex. We’ve gathered tips on how men can help women enjoy sex even more, because knowledge is power, and orgasms are awesome. If you’re a woman, you might also want to read our hot sex tips for women here.   Time unlocks all the best doors Create a space in her day […]

Aotearotica – an erotic journal for New Zealand

Image by Rita Renoir. By Laura Borrowdale for Stuff. Laura is a teacher, a mother and the founder of New Zealand’s first erotic journal, Aotearotica. Looking out at a room full of people who have accidentally booked a dinner party on the same night you’ve been booked to recite erotic poetry is always going to be […]

So many reasons to use personal lubricant, and choose organic lube!

“It seems it’s assumed that every woman just ‘lubes up’ easy peasy and all-of-a-sudden we are slip slidin’ and ready to go. Reality is, it takes women time (and authentic connection with their lover) to get wet, plus some of us just don’t get as wet as others, and that’s completely normal and okay too.” […]

An insider’s guide to transitioning from self-loving solo fun to bonking!

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Contributor blog by a Bonk Lube customer. Want to share your story? Email us. If we publish it, we will send you a treat! Whoever thought there would be a problem with moving from masturbating (and enjoying those delicious sensations), to being concerned about how your body will adapt when you meet that amazing someone […]

12 Great reasons to use a personal lubricant

Sex is fabulous, and slippery sex is even better! That’s where lube comes into the act. The topic of using lube can be hushed up in certain circles… either because it has ‘kinky’ connotations and only a total sex addict would need it; or for the complete opposite reason – when you need a little […]

What makes good sex great? Tips for a hot sex life from Bonk Lube

We’ll happily admit it, we love sex. And, it’s a fascinating thing to experience different ways of having sex – in different moods, different positions, and sometimes with different people! From endorphin drenched star spangled love making of the most romantic kind, to exciting hard and fast, there’s so much to try! We got to […]