Category Archives: Sexperts

The ABC of a spicy sex life

Enjoy our sexy little list of alphabetised sex tips for a hot and adventurous summer with Bonk Lube! A Ass play… a feather-light tickle or full penetration, it’s your call!   B Beads… not what you expected right? “Based on the book Forty Beads, I gave my husband a sack of little red beads and […]

Sexy, fiesty spring sex tips

Spring is here, with cherry blossoms fluttering, lambs leaping and a certain vibrancy in the air… or is it sexual tension and desire? Science says that sexual activity peaks in winter and summer but for many of us, spring provides an undeniable frisson of energy that leads to exciting paths. Maybe it’s seeing the first bare legs in skirts and chest muscles stretching tshirts in enticing ways. Spring is here – let’s celebrate!

Book a sexy night in… with yourself

Who knows your body like no one else? Who loves to make you feel good? Who can you trust implicitly? If you answered with your partner’s name, that’s fantastic – but if you answered with your own, wonderful; we have some sexy self-loving tips for you.

Better sex for women – hot sex tips for men who love women

We love great sex. We’ve gathered tips on how men can help women enjoy sex even more, because knowledge is power, and orgasms are awesome. If you’re a woman, you might also want to read our hot sex tips for women here.   Time unlocks all the best doors Create a space in her day […]

Aotearotica – an erotic journal for New Zealand

Image by Rita Renoir. By Laura Borrowdale for Stuff. Laura is a teacher, a mother and the founder of New Zealand’s first erotic journal, Aotearotica. Looking out at a room full of people who have accidentally booked a dinner party on the same night you’ve been booked to recite erotic poetry is always going to be […]

An insider’s guide to transitioning from self-loving solo fun to bonking!

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Contributor blog by a Bonk Lube customer. Want to share your story? Email us. If we publish it, we will send you a treat! Whoever thought there would be a problem with moving from masturbating (and enjoying those delicious sensations), to being concerned about how your body will adapt when you meet that amazing someone […]

What makes good sex great? Tips for a hot sex life from Bonk Lube

We’ll happily admit it, we love sex. And, it’s a fascinating thing to experience different ways of having sex – in different moods, different positions, and sometimes with different people! From endorphin drenched star spangled love making of the most romantic kind, to exciting hard and fast, there’s so much to try! We got to […]