Category Archives: Sex advice

How to make love – AND love the planet!

Sex is natural. And we think it should be naturally good for the earth too. Top picks in this Oh Natural blog by Ethically Kate were the magical combination of Jonny Condoms & Bonk Lube!   Wrap it the green way with vegan condoms If condoms are your preferred method of birth control and STI […]

4 Reasons sex is better with someone you love

Monogamy has a pretty bad rap. We’re told that sex with the same person will get boring, that we’ll lose the urge for intimacy. That once that first flush fades, you’re left with ashes of a sex-drive. In reality, that hunger never goes away.

Oil based personal lubricant or water based sex lube? Choose your lube!

Ok, we’re agreed that organic personal lubricant is where it’s at, because we don’t need pesticides in on our love making – but which is better for you – water based lube or oil based lube? Use this handy checklist to find the best organic lubricant for you!   1. Are you using sex toys? […]

Better sex for women – hot sex tips for men who love women

We love great sex. We’ve gathered tips on how men can help women enjoy sex even more, because knowledge is power, and orgasms are awesome. If you’re a woman, you might also want to read our hot sex tips for women here.   Time unlocks all the best doors Create a space in her day […]

Aotearotica – an erotic journal for New Zealand

Image by Rita Renoir. By Laura Borrowdale for Stuff. Laura is a teacher, a mother and the founder of New Zealand’s first erotic journal, Aotearotica. Looking out at a room full of people who have accidentally booked a dinner party on the same night you’ve been booked to recite erotic poetry is always going to be […]

Reasons women choose organic personal lubricant

“It seems it’s assumed that every woman just ‘lubes up’ easy peasy and all-of-a-sudden we are slip slidin’ and ready to go. Reality is, it takes women time (and authentic connection with their lover) to get wet, plus some of us just don’t get as wet as others, and that’s completely normal and okay too.” […]

An insider’s guide to transitioning from self-loving solo fun to bonking!

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Contributor blog by a Bonk Lube customer. Want to share your story? Email us. If we publish it, we will send you a treat! Whoever thought there would be a problem with moving from masturbating (and enjoying those delicious sensations), to being concerned about how your body will adapt when you meet that amazing someone […]

Create a better sex life Part 2 – A how-to for sexy, sensual fun!

Let your partner please you Take turns giving the goodness and let foreplay be a one-way street for a while. Often giving pleasure is just as much fun as getting it, and the person on the receiving end can concentrate 100% on how amazing they are feeling. Feel great about life What makes you hum? […]